TY - BOOK AU - Laaser, Debbie, TI - Shattered vows: hope and healing for women who have been sexually betrayed SN - 9780310541950 AV - HQ806 .L28 2008eb U1 - 248.8/435 22 PY - 2008/// CY - Grand Rapids, Mich. PB - Zondervan KW - RELIGION / Christian Life / Relationships KW - Adultery KW - Wives KW - Psychology KW - Marriage KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - RELIGION / Christian Life / Women's Issues KW - Electronic books N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 247-256); Preface: The darkest, loneliest day -- Introduction: So much for "happily ever after" -- "What am I supposed to do now?" : first steps for the brokenhearted -- "Why should I get help when it's his problem?" : accepting the support you deserve -- "How could this have happened?" : understanding the real problem -- "Where can I hide my heart?" : the journey through brokenness -- "When will I stop feeling so out of control?" : the paradox of powerlessness -- "What do you mean, 'do I want to get well'?" : looking at commitment, risks, and triggers -- "How can I ever trust him again?" : the million-dollar question -- "Is forgiving him really possible?" : it's easier and harder than you think -- "How can we rebuild our relationship?" : creating a shared vision for a passionate alliance -- Epilogue: Taking your show on the road ER -